diff --git a/Cargo.lock b/Cargo.lock
index dd9068f..a4d81c7 100644
--- a/Cargo.lock
+++ b/Cargo.lock
@@ -4722,9 +4722,9 @@ dependencies = [
 
 [[package]]
 name = "multimap"
-version = "0.10.0"
+version = "0.10.1"
 source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
-checksum = "defc4c55412d89136f966bbb339008b474350e5e6e78d2714439c386b3137a03"
+checksum = "1d87ecb2933e8aeadb3e3a02b828fed80a7528047e68b4f424523a0981a3a084"
 dependencies = [
  "serde",
 ]
diff --git a/easytier/Cargo.toml b/easytier/Cargo.toml
index ebf22c7..0c5819b 100644
--- a/easytier/Cargo.toml
+++ b/easytier/Cargo.toml
@@ -213,7 +213,7 @@ hickory-client = "0.25.2"
 hickory-server = { version = "0.25.2", features = ["resolver"] }
 derive_builder = "0.20.2"
 humantime-serde = "1.1.1"
-multimap = "0.10.0"
+multimap = "0.10.1"
 version-compare = "0.2.0"
 hmac = "0.12.1"
 sha2 = "0.10.8"
diff --git a/easytier/src/connector/manual.rs b/easytier/src/connector/manual.rs
index a25f0fb..1aed487 100644
--- a/easytier/src/connector/manual.rs
+++ b/easytier/src/connector/manual.rs
@@ -3,24 +3,16 @@ use std::{
     sync::{Arc, Weak},
 };
 
-use anyhow::Context;
 use dashmap::DashSet;
-use tokio::{
-    sync::{
-        broadcast::{error::RecvError, Receiver},
-        mpsc,
-    },
-    task::JoinSet,
-    time::timeout,
-};
+use tokio::{sync::mpsc, task::JoinSet, time::timeout};
 
 use crate::{
     common::{dns::socket_addrs, join_joinset_background, PeerId},
-    peers::{peer_conn::PeerConnId, peer_map::PeerMap},
+    peers::peer_conn::PeerConnId,
     proto::{
         api::instance::{
             Connector, ConnectorManageRpc, ConnectorStatus, ListConnectorRequest,
-            ListConnectorResponse, PeerConnInfo,
+            ListConnectorResponse,
         },
         rpc_types::{self, controller::BaseController},
     },
@@ -40,7 +32,7 @@ use crate::{
 
 use super::create_connector_by_url;
 
-type ConnectorMap = Arc<DashSet<String>>;
+type ConnectorMap = Arc<DashSet<url::Url>>;
 
 #[derive(Debug, Clone)]
 struct ReconnResult {
@@ -51,11 +43,11 @@ struct ReconnResult {
 
 struct ConnectorManagerData {
     connectors: ConnectorMap,
-    reconnecting: DashSet<String>,
+    reconnecting: DashSet<url::Url>,
     peer_manager: Weak<PeerManager>,
-    alive_conn_urls: Arc<DashSet<String>>,
+    alive_conn_urls: Arc<DashSet<url::Url>>,
     // user removed connector urls
-    removed_conn_urls: Arc<DashSet<String>>,
+    removed_conn_urls: Arc<DashSet<url::Url>>,
     net_ns: NetNS,
     global_ctx: ArcGlobalCtx,
 }
@@ -70,7 +62,6 @@ impl ManualConnectorManager {
     pub fn new(global_ctx: ArcGlobalCtx, peer_manager: Arc<PeerManager>) -> Self {
         let connectors = Arc::new(DashSet::new());
         let tasks = JoinSet::new();
-        let event_subscriber = global_ctx.subscribe();
 
         let mut ret = Self {
             global_ctx: global_ctx.clone(),
@@ -88,10 +79,6 @@ impl ManualConnectorManager {
 
         ret.tasks
             .spawn(Self::conn_mgr_reconn_routine(ret.data.clone()));
-        ret.tasks.spawn(Self::conn_mgr_handle_event_routine(
-            ret.data.clone(),
-            event_subscriber,
-        ));
 
         ret
     }
@@ -101,11 +88,11 @@ impl ManualConnectorManager {
         T: TunnelConnector + 'static,
     {
         tracing::info!("add_connector: {}", connector.remote_url());
-        self.data.connectors.insert(connector.remote_url().into());
+        self.data.connectors.insert(connector.remote_url());
     }
 
-    pub async fn add_connector_by_url(&self, url: &str) -> Result<(), Error> {
-        self.data.connectors.insert(url.to_owned());
+    pub async fn add_connector_by_url(&self, url: url::Url) -> Result<(), Error> {
+        self.data.connectors.insert(url);
         Ok(())
     }
 
@@ -120,34 +107,28 @@ impl ManualConnectorManager {
         {
             return Err(Error::NotFound);
         }
-        self.data.removed_conn_urls.insert(url.to_string());
+        self.data.removed_conn_urls.insert(url.into());
         Ok(())
     }
 
     pub async fn clear_connectors(&self) {
         self.list_connectors().await.iter().for_each(|x| {
             if let Some(url) = &x.url {
-                self.data.removed_conn_urls.insert(url.to_string());
+                self.data.removed_conn_urls.insert(url.clone().into());
             }
         });
     }
 
     pub async fn list_connectors(&self) -> Vec<Connector> {
-        let conn_urls: BTreeSet<String> = self
-            .data
-            .connectors
-            .iter()
-            .map(|x| x.key().clone())
-            .collect();
-
-        let dead_urls: BTreeSet<String> = Self::collect_dead_conns(self.data.clone())
+        let dead_urls: BTreeSet<url::Url> = Self::collect_dead_conns(self.data.clone())
             .await
             .into_iter()
             .collect();
 
         let mut ret = Vec::new();
 
-        for conn_url in conn_urls {
+        for item in self.data.connectors.iter() {
+            let conn_url = item.key().clone();
             let mut status = ConnectorStatus::Connected;
             if dead_urls.contains(&conn_url) {
                 status = ConnectorStatus::Disconnected;
@@ -155,20 +136,20 @@ impl ManualConnectorManager {
             ret.insert(
                 0,
                 Connector {
-                    url: Some(conn_url.parse().unwrap()),
+                    url: Some(conn_url.into()),
                     status: status.into(),
                 },
             );
         }
 
-        let reconnecting_urls: BTreeSet<String> =
+        let reconnecting_urls: BTreeSet<url::Url> =
             self.data.reconnecting.iter().map(|x| x.clone()).collect();
 
         for conn_url in reconnecting_urls {
             ret.insert(
                 0,
                 Connector {
-                    url: Some(conn_url.parse().unwrap()),
+                    url: Some(conn_url.into()),
                     status: ConnectorStatus::Connecting.into(),
                 },
             );
@@ -177,49 +158,6 @@ impl ManualConnectorManager {
         ret
     }
 
-    async fn conn_mgr_handle_event_routine(
-        data: Arc<ConnectorManagerData>,
-        mut event_recv: Receiver<GlobalCtxEvent>,
-    ) {
-        loop {
-            match event_recv.recv().await {
-                Ok(event) => {
-                    Self::handle_event(&event, &data).await;
-                }
-                Err(RecvError::Lagged(n)) => {
-                    tracing::warn!("event_recv lagged: {}, rebuild alive conn list", n);
-                    event_recv = event_recv.resubscribe();
-                    data.alive_conn_urls.clear();
-                    let Some(pm) = data.peer_manager.upgrade() else {
-                        tracing::warn!("peer manager is gone, exit");
-                        break;
-                    };
-                    let fill_alive_urls_with_peer_map = |peer_map: &PeerMap| {
-                        for x in peer_map.get_alive_conns().iter().map(|x| {
-                            x.tunnel
-                                .clone()
-                                .unwrap_or_default()
-                                .remote_addr
-                                .unwrap_or_default()
-                                .to_string()
-                        }) {
-                            data.alive_conn_urls.insert(x);
-                        }
-                    };
-
-                    fill_alive_urls_with_peer_map(&pm.get_peer_map());
-                    fill_alive_urls_with_peer_map(&pm.get_foreign_network_client().get_peer_map());
-
-                    continue;
-                }
-                Err(RecvError::Closed) => {
-                    tracing::warn!("event_recv closed, exit");
-                    break;
-                }
-            }
-        }
-    }
-
     async fn conn_mgr_reconn_routine(data: Arc<ConnectorManagerData>) {
         tracing::warn!("conn_mgr_routine started");
         let mut reconn_interval = tokio::time::interval(std::time::Duration::from_millis(
@@ -261,31 +199,6 @@ impl ManualConnectorManager {
         }
     }
 
-    async fn handle_event(event: &GlobalCtxEvent, data: &ConnectorManagerData) {
-        let need_add_alive = |conn_info: &PeerConnInfo| conn_info.is_client;
-        match event {
-            GlobalCtxEvent::PeerConnAdded(conn_info) => {
-                if !need_add_alive(conn_info) {
-                    return;
-                }
-                let addr = conn_info.tunnel.as_ref().unwrap().remote_addr.clone();
-                data.alive_conn_urls.insert(addr.unwrap().to_string());
-                tracing::warn!("peer conn added: {:?}", conn_info);
-            }
-
-            GlobalCtxEvent::PeerConnRemoved(conn_info) => {
-                if !need_add_alive(conn_info) {
-                    return;
-                }
-                let addr = conn_info.tunnel.as_ref().unwrap().remote_addr.clone();
-                data.alive_conn_urls.remove(&addr.unwrap().to_string());
-                tracing::warn!("peer conn removed: {:?}", conn_info);
-            }
-
-            _ => {}
-        }
-    }
-
     fn handle_remove_connector(data: Arc<ConnectorManagerData>) {
         let remove_later = DashSet::new();
         for it in data.removed_conn_urls.iter() {
@@ -307,12 +220,20 @@ impl ManualConnectorManager {
         }
     }
 
-    async fn collect_dead_conns(data: Arc<ConnectorManagerData>) -> BTreeSet<String> {
+    async fn collect_dead_conns(data: Arc<ConnectorManagerData>) -> BTreeSet<url::Url> {
         Self::handle_remove_connector(data.clone());
-        let all_urls: BTreeSet<String> = data.connectors.iter().map(|x| x.key().clone()).collect();
         let mut ret = BTreeSet::new();
-        for url in all_urls.iter() {
-            if !data.alive_conn_urls.contains(url) {
+        let Some(pm) = data.peer_manager.upgrade() else {
+            tracing::warn!("peer manager is gone, exit");
+            return ret;
+        };
+        for url in data.connectors.iter().map(|x| x.key().clone()) {
+            if !pm.get_peer_map().is_client_url_alive(&url)
+                && !pm
+                    .get_foreign_network_client()
+                    .get_peer_map()
+                    .is_client_url_alive(&url)
+            {
                 ret.insert(url.clone());
             }
         }
@@ -347,21 +268,19 @@ impl ManualConnectorManager {
 
     async fn conn_reconnect(
         data: Arc<ConnectorManagerData>,
-        dead_url: String,
+        dead_url: url::Url,
     ) -> Result<ReconnResult, Error> {
         tracing::info!("reconnect: {}", dead_url);
 
         let mut ip_versions = vec![];
-        let u = url::Url::parse(&dead_url)
-            .with_context(|| format!("failed to parse connector url {:?}", dead_url))?;
-        if u.scheme() == "ring" || u.scheme() == "txt" || u.scheme() == "srv" {
+        if dead_url.scheme() == "ring" || dead_url.scheme() == "txt" || dead_url.scheme() == "srv" {
             ip_versions.push(IpVersion::Both);
         } else {
-            let addrs = match socket_addrs(&u, || Some(1000)).await {
+            let addrs = match socket_addrs(&dead_url, || Some(1000)).await {
                 Ok(addrs) => addrs,
                 Err(e) => {
                     data.global_ctx.issue_event(GlobalCtxEvent::ConnectError(
-                        dead_url.clone(),
+                        dead_url.to_string(),
                         format!("{:?}", IpVersion::Both),
                         format!("{:?}", e),
                     ));
@@ -393,13 +312,18 @@ impl ManualConnectorManager {
             "cannot get ip from url"
         )));
         for ip_version in ip_versions {
-            let use_long_timeout = dead_url.starts_with("http")
-                || dead_url.starts_with("srv")
-                || dead_url.starts_with("txt");
+            let use_long_timeout = dead_url.scheme() == "http"
+                || dead_url.scheme() == "https"
+                || dead_url.scheme() == "txt"
+                || dead_url.scheme() == "srv";
             let ret = timeout(
                 // allow http connector to wait longer
                 std::time::Duration::from_secs(if use_long_timeout { 20 } else { 2 }),
-                Self::conn_reconnect_with_ip_version(data.clone(), dead_url.clone(), ip_version),
+                Self::conn_reconnect_with_ip_version(
+                    data.clone(),
+                    dead_url.to_string(),
+                    ip_version,
+                ),
             )
             .await;
             tracing::info!("reconnect: {} done, ret: {:?}", dead_url, ret);
@@ -422,7 +346,7 @@ impl ManualConnectorManager {
 
             // 发送事件（只有在未 break 时才执行）
             data.global_ctx.issue_event(GlobalCtxEvent::ConnectError(
-                dead_url.clone(),
+                dead_url.to_string(),
                 format!("{:?}", ip_version),
                 format!("{:?}", reconn_ret),
             ));
diff --git a/easytier/src/instance/instance.rs b/easytier/src/instance/instance.rs
index 37247c0..e39a391 100644
--- a/easytier/src/instance/instance.rs
+++ b/easytier/src/instance/instance.rs
@@ -484,7 +484,7 @@ impl InstanceConfigPatcher {
             match ConfigPatchAction::try_from(connector.action) {
                 Ok(ConfigPatchAction::Add) => {
                     tracing::info!("Connector added: {}", url);
-                    conn_manager.add_connector_by_url(url.as_str()).await?;
+                    conn_manager.add_connector_by_url(url).await?;
                 }
                 Ok(ConfigPatchAction::Remove) => {
                     tracing::info!("Connector removed: {}", url);
@@ -620,7 +620,7 @@ impl Instance {
     async fn add_initial_peers(&mut self) -> Result<(), Error> {
         for peer in self.global_ctx.config.get_peers().iter() {
             self.get_conn_manager()
-                .add_connector_by_url(peer.uri.as_str())
+                .add_connector_by_url(peer.uri.clone())
                 .await?;
         }
         Ok(())
diff --git a/easytier/src/peers/peer_map.rs b/easytier/src/peers/peer_map.rs
index 3b2af1d..5a33aaf 100644
--- a/easytier/src/peers/peer_map.rs
+++ b/easytier/src/peers/peer_map.rs
@@ -5,6 +5,7 @@ use std::{
 
 use anyhow::Context;
 use dashmap::{DashMap, DashSet};
+use parking_lot::Mutex;
 use tokio::sync::RwLock;
 
 use crate::{
@@ -33,7 +34,7 @@ pub struct PeerMap {
     peer_map: DashMap<PeerId, Arc<Peer>>,
     packet_send: PacketRecvChan,
     routes: RwLock<Vec<ArcRoute>>,
-    alive_conns: Arc<DashMap<(PeerId, PeerConnId), PeerConnInfo>>,
+    alive_client_urls: Arc<Mutex<multimap::MultiMap<url::Url, PeerConnId>>>,
 }
 
 impl PeerMap {
@@ -44,7 +45,7 @@ impl PeerMap {
             peer_map: DashMap::new(),
             packet_send,
             routes: RwLock::new(Vec::new()),
-            alive_conns: Arc::new(DashMap::new()),
+            alive_client_urls: Arc::new(Mutex::new(multimap::MultiMap::new())),
         }
     }
 
@@ -56,7 +57,7 @@ impl PeerMap {
     }
 
     pub async fn add_new_peer_conn(&self, peer_conn: PeerConn) {
-        self.maintain_alive_conns(&peer_conn);
+        let _ = self.maintain_alive_client_urls(&peer_conn);
         let peer_id = peer_conn.get_peer_id();
         let no_entry = self.peer_map.get(&peer_id).is_none();
         if no_entry {
@@ -69,29 +70,48 @@ impl PeerMap {
         }
     }
 
-    fn maintain_alive_conns(&self, peer_conn: &PeerConn) {
-        let close_notifier = peer_conn.get_close_notifier();
-        let alive_conns_weak = Arc::downgrade(&self.alive_conns);
-        let conn_id = close_notifier.get_conn_id();
+    fn maintain_alive_client_urls(&self, peer_conn: &PeerConn) -> Option<()> {
         let conn_info = peer_conn.get_conn_info();
-        self.alive_conns
-            .insert((conn_info.peer_id, conn_id), conn_info.clone());
+        if !conn_info.is_client {
+            return None;
+        }
+
+        let close_notifier = peer_conn.get_close_notifier();
+        let alive_conns_weak = Arc::downgrade(&self.alive_client_urls);
+        let conn_id = close_notifier.get_conn_id();
+        let alive_client_url: url::Url = conn_info.tunnel?.remote_addr?.into();
+        self.alive_client_urls
+            .lock()
+            .insert(alive_client_url.clone(), conn_id);
+
         tokio::spawn(async move {
             if let Some(mut waiter) = close_notifier.get_waiter().await {
                 let _ = waiter.recv().await;
             }
-            let mut alive_conn_count = 0;
-            if let Some(alive_conns) = alive_conns_weak.upgrade() {
-                alive_conns.remove(&(conn_info.peer_id, conn_id)).unwrap();
-                alive_conn_count = alive_conns.len();
-                shrink_dashmap(&alive_conns, None);
-            }
+            let Some(alive_conns) = alive_conns_weak.upgrade() else {
+                return;
+            };
+            let mut guard = alive_conns.lock();
+            if let Some(mut conn_ids) = guard.remove(&alive_client_url) {
+                conn_ids.retain(|id| id != &conn_id);
+                if !conn_ids.is_empty() {
+                    guard.insert_many(alive_client_url, conn_ids);
+                }
+            };
+            let alive_conn_count = guard.len();
+            drop(guard);
             tracing::debug!(
                 ?conn_id,
                 "peer conn is closed, current alive conns: {}",
                 alive_conn_count
             );
         });
+
+        Some(())
+    }
+
+    pub fn is_client_url_alive(&self, url: &url::Url) -> bool {
+        self.alive_client_urls.lock().contains_key(url)
     }
 
     pub fn get_peer_by_id(&self, peer_id: PeerId) -> Option<Arc<Peer>> {
@@ -359,13 +379,6 @@ impl PeerMap {
         Ok(!self.has_peer(gateway_id))
     }
 
-    pub fn get_alive_conns(&self) -> DashMap<(PeerId, PeerConnId), PeerConnInfo> {
-        self.alive_conns
-            .iter()
-            .map(|v| (*v.key(), v.value().clone()))
-            .collect()
-    }
-
     pub fn my_peer_id(&self) -> PeerId {
         self.my_peer_id
     }